
A mate noticed you've been going through a rough time. More on edge, more withdrawn, overthinking everything, nowhere near as confident as you used to be.
Half the time you don't know if what you're feeling is real or if you're losing it. From the outside it looks like a breakup, a difficult ex, a messy co-parenting situation — something you should have moved on from by now. But inside, you feel completely stuck in it.
You keep replaying conversations. You question your memory. You question your judgement. Sometimes you wonder, "What if they're right? What if I'm the one who's messed up?"
You see a message come through and your body reacts before you've even opened it. Your chest tightens. Your stomach drops. And while you're stuck trying to make sense of it all, you're missing out on peace, confidence, connection, and actually feeling present in your own life.
"You are not crazy, and you are not weak for still being affected by it."
— Adam
I've been where you are now — questioning myself, replaying conversations, feeling my body react to a message, and wondering how someone else's voice became louder than mine.
That lived experience, combined with years of research into narcissistic abuse, trauma bonding, emotional manipulation, high-conflict dynamics, boundaries and identity recovery, is exactly why I built this programme. I wanted something practical that men could follow step by step — easy to use, but real impact.
I've helped many men restart their lives and finally live with freedom. Not by making every decision for them, but by helping them rebuild from the inside out — so they become the grounded man who trusts himself again.
Author of From Gaslit to Grounded: Reclaiming Your Mind, Identity, and Power After Narcissistic Abuse for Men.
The book will be out soon. Anyone who joins the programme also receives a digital copy when it is available — free of charge.

Adam J. Rice brings together extensive experience in mental health, counselling, coaching and Neuro-Linguistic Programming. As a Credentialed Mental Health Clinician and Certified NLP Trainer, Adam is committed to ongoing professional development and delivering practical, evidence-informed support that helps people create meaningful change.




Understand how gaslighting, blame-shifting and guilt can distort your thinking — and learn to trust your own memory, judgement and perspective again.
Understand the emotional pull that keeps you reacting to messages, silence or accusations — and learn to calm the survival responses keeping you stuck.
Build clear boundaries you can actually maintain — with practical scripts and a plan for responding confidently when someone crosses the line.

Slow everything down. Understand what is triggering you, calm the survival responses, and start seeing the pattern clearly — gaslighting, trauma bonding, blame-shifting, guilt, people-pleasing and chasing closure.

Start trusting yourself again. Separate your own voice from the guilt and criticism. Build clear boundaries for your real situations — an ex, co-parenting, a narcissistic parent, family pressure, dating.

Create your red-flag checklist and future-relationship framework. Rebuild confidence, self-respect, purpose and direction — so you know what to look for, what to avoid, and how to protect your peace.
That is common to wonder. Many men question themselves because the abuse was emotional, subtle, private or hard to explain. This programme helps you understand the patterns without needing to prove your pain to everyone else.
Inside this work, we do not avoid responsibility, but we also do not turn everything into self-blame. The goal is to separate what is yours to own from what was manipulation, control, gaslighting or high-conflict behaviour.
No. This is a structured coaching programme focused on practical recovery, self-trust, boundaries, decision-making and future relationship protection. It does not replace therapy, legal advice, emergency support or clinical mental health care.
Yes. Many men cannot simply disappear from the situation, especially when children, shared finances, separation or family dynamics are involved. The programme helps you become calmer, clearer and less reactive even if the other person is still in your life.
No. It's not about dragging you through every painful moment. It is about understanding the patterns that matter and building tools that help you move forward.
Come along to the first group coaching session. If it does not feel like the right fit, let Adam know within 24 hours and you can leave the programme — you'll receive a refund of anything paid above your initial deposit.

